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what if it doesn't end well?
sometimes my mom will ask me how im doing and i kinda wanna say something like "bad" to her but then im like why would i worry my mom like that when my life is actually fine i just feel unnecessarily stressed lol
open.spotify.com/show/41ozTeEHjVe9FXsSFRgHOy
podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/minecraft-therapy/id1726684490
0:00 - i am stressed
3:20 - it's not good 4 me 2 b stressed
7:12 - working WITH stress
13:18 - what if it doesn't end well?
16:38 - tuning out
26:22 - gratitude
29:50 - pessimism
36:50 - it's going to be ok
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people don't have friends anymore. why?
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TLDR WHY CANT WE BE FRIENDS 0:00 - intro (the friendship recession) 2:05 - work bad 4:00 - phone bad 5:37 - urban design bad 8:22 - the vibe is in shambles (man vs bear) 13:55 - how to make friends 19:40 - don't stop believin this video is about friends, the friendship recession, and your mom
Taylor Swift and the Chamber of Sadness
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she knew what she was doing dropping ttpd the day before 420 thanks for watching :) minecraft therapy soon. some days (most days) i just want to lie around and do nothing. sometimes i think about how i'm 25-35% of the way through my life, or how if i was born a mere 500 years earlier i'd be an old man at my age rn lmao. idk! some days, i don't know, i have this intense yearning for something el...
The Complete Guide to Driving
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foot all on the gas this not a c8 vette i can beat em i believe in me just tell me what's the bet
cowboy carter & the allure of nostalgia
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thanks for watching :) i am trying to figure my life out and stuff. i hope you are doing well in your life
loving myself so hard i stop hating everyone
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cant stop wont stop
Critical Ariana Grande Theory
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yuh yuh hi i like listening to music and ariana grande just released some new music so i wanted to talk about her new music and her stuff as a whole :) open.spotify.com/playlist/1AayG6nJrpOl2KS6Sxnuzz?si=b5e3d8756f6e43b5 other music u might like if u like eternal sunshine melodrama (lorde) the good witch (maisie peters) one foot in front of the other (griff) i blame the world (sasha alex sloan)...
2 dead grandpas
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2 dead grandpas
searching for true self-expression (in a society)
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or: do we have to run off into the woods and become wolf people? also u can listen to this episode as a podcast spotify: open.spotify.com/show/41ozTeEHjVe9FXsSFRgHOy?si=aecbe884798a4a72 apple podcasts: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/minecraft-therapy/id1726684490 “no man can wear one face to himself and another to the multitude, without finally getting bewildered as to which may be the true” - n...
finding joy in this strange existence
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you have no idea how high i can fly 0:00 - i feel like i haven't been enjoying life 10:39 - why joy? 26:57 - the perfect life 34:34 - big joys 38:35 - litte joys 45:12 - setting myself up for joy 49:53- appreciating the joy already in my life 53:35 - in conclusion this essay is about
is it gonna feel this way forever?
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0:00 - we are so back 3:45 - what am i DOING with my LIFE 9:36 - befuddlement regarding my asian identity and belonging 15:54 - ramblin bout life 17:13 - how do i make money without destroying my soul 24:00 - making friends is scawy 25:32 - more ramblin bout life 28:14 - you must choose hope, you must choose light 31:52 - sittin on the dock of the bay 34:38 - you don't have to "fix" your life 3...
i used to hate myself, and now i hate myself less: finding self-love (minecraft therapy)
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inside you there are two wolves 0:00 - intro self-hate 1:51 - self-hate as a personality trait 6:13 - introvertedmadness' hierarchy of needs 11:31 - school sux 17:28 - why did school make me hate myself? the process 21:21 - it's me, hi, i'm the problem it's me 24:04 - do you want to be right or do you want to be happy? 26:01 - "i love you, self" 28:27 - self-love takes time self-love 31:58 - i'...
is it just me or do A LOT of people not like their jobs?
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the one unemployed friend at 3pm on a tuesday: www.atlasofplaces.com/essays/on-the-phenomenon-of-bullshit-jobs/ man oh man life been crazy recently dawgs!!! i had crazy allergies last week so this video got delayed a bit but hopefully y'all enjoy :) i really wish i uploaded more often cuz i like making videos and talking to everyone but i'm also learning to not treat my life as some orange i go...
playing project zomboid for the first time to simulate the stress of adulthood
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"that's how you face such a world. you must have love in your heart for your life. it is love vs hate. i love my life and the people in it. even beatrice." ^thts from the movie amsterdam. i recommend. hope u lovelies are all doing well and having fun. isn't that the point of this whole thing after all? to have fun??? :)
Surviving New York City
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Surviving New York City
The Complete Guide to Getting a Tech Job
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The Complete Guide to Getting a Tech Job
no one asked but here’s 4 lessons from the first half of my 20s
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no one asked but here’s 4 lessons from the first half of my 20s
how to forgive
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how to forgive
Surviving New York City (taylor's age-restricted version)
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Surviving New York City (taylor's age-restricted version)
Can music actually save your life?
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Can music actually save your life?
10 things i hate(d) about stanford + hot ones challenge + therapy sesh
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10 things i hate(d) about stanford hot ones challenge therapy sesh
Surviving the Bay Area
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Surviving the Bay Area
minecraft therapy: is making "college content" keeping me stuck in the past?
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minecraft therapy: is making "college content" keeping me stuck in the past?
new york city vlog
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new york city vlog
The Complete Guide to College Admissions
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The Complete Guide to College Admissions
is stanford ~actually~ that bad?
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is stanford ~actually~ that bad?
Surviving High School Track
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Surviving High School Track
minecraft therapy: i absolutely do not have it figured out
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minecraft therapy: i absolutely do not have it figured out

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @jessicatoledo6324
    @jessicatoledo6324 2 години тому

    Interesting.

  • @Captain_Andor
    @Captain_Andor 3 години тому

    Most people won't admit it but Wanking off is something we miss doing as teens and I asked a lot of my coworkers and friends personally and I might've traumatized them but almost all of them miss wanking off as much as they did when they were teens but due to time or etc they simply get wank one off to get them going or relax themselves wanking one out is something nobody wants talk about but something everyone thinks of once

  • @cb603
    @cb603 6 годин тому

    Opening up to the Hum album cover

  • @rinowx5
    @rinowx5 7 годин тому

    Btw I love your editing 🤣

  • @rinowx5
    @rinowx5 8 годин тому

    They don’t even have family anymore. There’s so much competition, toxicity, and a lack of love amongst humans in general. Lack of community and people rely on constant distractions. it benefits large corporations that rely on your attention, sickness, and dedication for profit.

  • @tysonliu2833
    @tysonliu2833 День тому

    it's until my occasional travel back to Toronto/China do I realize what normal life is like after living in the bay area for 5 yrs

  • @KaioKenneth4
    @KaioKenneth4 День тому

    Great video! I thought it would be clickbait because the title is something that’s obvious to everyone with eyes and a brain, but you broke the problem and possible solutions down very informatively. I think “unfriendly-ness” is a perfect term for this issue.

  • @carlaa3623
    @carlaa3623 День тому

    People don’t know how to be with each other in good and bad. Also they don’t know or are mindful of their place.

  • @aadi.p4159
    @aadi.p4159 День тому

    I think it's cuz there r no third spaces anymore

  • @kevinkim8251
    @kevinkim8251 День тому

    I've felt ups and downs in recent years but what has helped me feel centered the most is realizing that nothing is more important than striving to share good memories with the people who are closest to you who actually care about you and for them. At some point the money and career will all fade away and what you will have left on your death bed is the memories and relationships with your family and friends that gave you the will to keep living and be willing to appreciate life. I respsect your ability to be open and be vulnerable about this on the internet.

  • @Switching_000
    @Switching_000 День тому

    Hey I am from Ethiopia ❤

  • @gunnasintern
    @gunnasintern 2 дні тому

    all a matter of perspective really, but suburban urban design does play a huge part tbh

  • @Hatework95
    @Hatework95 2 дні тому

    I hate working

  • @VaneezyTV
    @VaneezyTV 2 дні тому

    I usually don't lol when watching comedy but this 😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 you got me

  • @alexisgamezcruz1205
    @alexisgamezcruz1205 2 дні тому

    Second video watched from your channel. Again perfection 😎

  • @littylikelia
    @littylikelia 2 дні тому

    I’ve watched this so many times lol literally

  • @JuliaC-mz8qy
    @JuliaC-mz8qy 2 дні тому

    can this guy stop reading my brain please

  • @tinytina8451
    @tinytina8451 2 дні тому

    parasocially.. can we form a friendship ?

  • @vanatang6660
    @vanatang6660 2 дні тому

    Great! Thanks for sharing bro! I'm Vietnamese American, and I like how you excite me about startups. It's just like the way this channel bring to me: youtube.com/@kienthucdaochannel

  • @Fmellyeggs
    @Fmellyeggs 2 дні тому

    Phillion is aging quite poorly. Looks greasy asf

  • @Vilohit-gy5kt
    @Vilohit-gy5kt 2 дні тому

    5:05 bruh, that is exactly what happens in India, you've got to give a test called "NEET UG" when your in high school which is just high school biology and this is the only way you can get a MBBS to be a doctor, so basically getting to be a doctor just cause you know "Interesting plant tissue facts feat high school biology"

  • @lyndsiedavis4490
    @lyndsiedavis4490 2 дні тому

    went to new york for the first time at 22 years old (i’m from louisiana) and i would say “g’day!” and “hello!” to everyone i made eye contact with out of habit and not only did i get everything from crazy looks to literal slurs, but my boyfriend (who is from philly) pulled me aside and told me to stop bc it’s dangerous. not only do i make us look very muggable but apparently if you tell the wrong person to have a good day they might just try to jump you :/ also saying hello to everyone you make eye contact with in new york is exhausting like i def realize why it fell out of culture and is seen as weird as hell.

  • @VoltageNostalgia
    @VoltageNostalgia 2 дні тому

    @5:45 - 6:10 is just nonsense. No one is preventing us from going to real places and not just home to work, work to home. I agree with the overall message of the video but that's just not reality. I see this attitude a lot, but no one is actually enforcing it. People just have stopped going places, the park, a museum, visit a historical building, window shop some cool stores downtown. Ride a bike. Walk, run. We wouldn't be as lonely if we didn't lock ourselves inside and convince ourselves there's nothing out in the world to do Rural people are less lonely because they go outside and interact with each other far more and build a community

  • @aegis3039
    @aegis3039 3 дні тому

    I have long wanted to do a video commentary criticizing my own College's Computer Science program. I was told the system was set up with the premise of getting you to go into graduate program. Our entire curriculum did not have a single python class (the only Python based course was in the School of Business.) The entire program was centered around C and you were "expected to learn on your own time" if you wanted to use any other language which only C++ would be approved for submission in any course. But then again, our mechanical engineering department required taking Statics and Dynamics at the same time up until 2022.

  • @mr.mumblesgaming2530
    @mr.mumblesgaming2530 3 дні тому

    Hey if anyone in these comments could help me that would be great. I am struggling badly with trying to decide between college or just working on my own stuff. Now I don’t want to make the incorrect choice. Now the main reason I want to go to college is to honestly socialize. I don’t have a lot of friends and I’m very interested in having a good time making friends and maybe getting a gf or something. Now I don’t drink or do drugs or anything. I would prefer to be around people who are interested in fun things, but have an intellectual personality and are determined, friendly and respectful. Also I am prob gonna start with community college rather than university. So if anyone could tell me the difference and if college is really worth it for socializing that would be great.

  • @slimsoymilk
    @slimsoymilk 3 дні тому

    I’ve been pointing out red flags with my friends. Then I realized I’ve been the red flag the whole time I have lost contact with friends of 4+ years all in the span of 7 months because of this. fuck

  • @largestudent198
    @largestudent198 3 дні тому

    Target university

  • @largestudent198
    @largestudent198 3 дні тому

    They say all media attention is advertisement, but I am smart to know that that is also advertisement. Let's see how this video will be.

  • @jackdawson1054
    @jackdawson1054 3 дні тому

    Cleveland video and Silicon Valley clip elite choices

  • @DrunkenUFOPilot
    @DrunkenUFOPilot 3 дні тому

    At first I wasn't sure if he was playing a silly character, or if he really meant what he said. The general attitude of many CS majors is that a university should be a type of vocational school. No, university if for a broad education, to have a graduate be an innovator, leader, researcher, someone not just doing a job for a living but making big (or at non-small) things happen by working with other innovators and leaders and researchers. The goal is a broad if not deep understanding of other fields work, how things are known, how mysterious things are figured out, how discoveries are made and how practical problems are solved. Not actually solving practical problems (beyond doing research) but understanding *how* to solve practical problems. We need the practical hands-on people, who can create iOS apps and all that, who can come from universities but more typically from direct non-formal-education experience and from vocational schools, counting bootcamps as a specialized form of that. I've done both. Physics B.Sci. from a university, and TV production at Specs Howard, a vocational school in Michigan. I really like that latter better! Very practical, with immediate employability. My career went back into physics, though. If I went back to school, I'd go to Full Sail most likely. Someone who wants to make web pages or iOS can find vocational schools and other types of educational institutes that specialize in that without tons of abstract theory. Don't go to Stanford or any university if that's all you want in your career for now. Earning a degree can always be done later.

  • @turtleanton6539
    @turtleanton6539 3 дні тому

    Hmmm🎉

  • @momish392
    @momish392 4 дні тому

    My friends in highschool just straight up didn't want to hang out. I would always try to plan hangouts, parties, whatever. I turned my mom's garage into an amazing hangout spot - basketball hoop, big screen TV, sofa, etc. I kept inviting them to all kinds of things and they would never come. The instant there would be girls at some event though, all their excuses disappeared. I cut those guys off, but now I have no friends. Years have passed now and I feel like I've lost social skills and the ability to make new friends. I'm in college and I never made a single friend yet. I graduate soon.

  • @wesleymatthews4022
    @wesleymatthews4022 4 дні тому

    Aas a magth mahjor i can confirmm

  • @alexisgamezcruz1205
    @alexisgamezcruz1205 4 дні тому

    I just bumped into this video on UA-cam trying to search for what the Stanford Math codes cover/mean and I don't regret watching it one bit. One of the best college/CS/youtube videos I have ever seen. Had me laughing 😂 the whole way through and was shocked at the same time. I love that it was a no holds bar on Stanford and CS program in particular. Also love the clips, background noises/ adlibs, pictures etc. Keep up God's work and I will def. subscribe and be on the lookout for more of your videos.

  • @checkthelist
    @checkthelist 4 дні тому

    Please be yourself.

    • @checkthelist
      @checkthelist 4 дні тому

      btw, you contradicted yourself with urban living and feeling lonely. it also seems that you've never met someone from a rural area tbh. they're not like city people at all. they're religious and practice many religious doctrine-based lifestyle choices that allow them to not be depressed. that social-isolation chart also contradicts the point of rural people not feeling lonely. all of this is just speculation and misguided. hope you find God man.

  • @JuliaC-mz8qy
    @JuliaC-mz8qy 4 дні тому

    WHY DOES THE SOUTHERN TWANG FADE IN AND OUT

  • @JuliaC-mz8qy
    @JuliaC-mz8qy 4 дні тому

    I freaking love this guy, thank you guy

  • @FadedPilotNW
    @FadedPilotNW 4 дні тому

    Thank you algorithm

  • @jeremyandrews3292
    @jeremyandrews3292 4 дні тому

    My thinking is that we kind of have to factor gender into this at least partly, because it actually seems like this is mostly a problem for men. For American men, it has mostly been your immediate family, the person you're married to, any kids you have, and whatever interactions you have with co-workers. That's it. And with the way society is now, most of those things are harder to get. People are having fewer kids and relationships don't last as long. People often work remotely or spend a lot of time on their phone or at the computer even if they are at the office. You no longer have an excuse to walk over to someone and ask a question in person because everything can be done via text or e-mail. Eating out, the one thing you used to be able to ask people to do, is now seen as an expensive luxury. Going to the theater is also seen that way when you could just stream something at home. The truth was, this was just barely working, and modern technology and economic issues just pushed it over the edge until now it doesn't work at all anymore. The issue I see is this. Traditionally, single men are not trusted by society, because they cause a lot of problems and in a way people subconsciously rely on the fact that a woman trusts a man enough to be in a relationship with him, as a proxy for how trustworthy he is in general. That is to say, having a girlfriend/wife is not just about having a girlfriend/wife, it's about telling the other people around you, "Hey, a woman trusts me enough to be in a committed relationship with me, I'm not a threat. I won't steal your girl, I won't hit on you or worse, and I have something to lose if I go to jail." This is acknowledged in politics, a lot of male politicians have always known they have to be married because of the optics. So basically, the doors to friendship don't really open for men until after they have a wife, and at that point often the wife's friends and any kids they have are sufficient to satisfy their needs. In order to get a wife and a committed relationship, you usually need to have a solid, good-paying job. That's problem number two... good jobs are harder and harder to come by, which means men aren't getting married as much, which means we now have an epidemic of single men who are either unemployed, or work jobs that don't pay much and aren't very stable, and the truth is that society just doesn't want these men, they're seen as "losers," and it only gets worse as they age and fail to thrive. These men tend to see each other more as competition than as company for the most part, and aren't really going to rely on each other. Unless maybe they're gay or something, but for normal, straight men, that would be very odd indeed unless they're childhood friends or served in the military together or something. I would say it's really not technology that's the problem, it's that our society isn't setup for the current moment. We live in a society that is extremely competitive, individualistic, and which seeks efficiency. This worked fine back when technology was less advanced, because we had plenty of practical excuses to interact with other people and form bonds. Lots of things had to be done in person, and they gave us all kinds of practical excuses to do things in real life and interact with people without appearing weak or desperate. All those practical excuses are gone, and now to want to do things in real life is to admit to wanting something impractical, to being sentimental and lonely, and being a lonely guy is kind of a "ick" for most people. Women have handled it better because they are naturally focused on the friendship itself and nurturing the connection rather than on the hobbies and practical excuses that incidentally lead to friendships like guys are. With guys, they are finding that they can pursue all their hobbies in total isolation now, unless maybe they're younger and into sports or something. Their jobs don't require as much human contact, their hobbies don't require as much human contact, the inefficiency of doing things in person when they don't have to be done that way kind of ruins them and makes the intent too obvious, so now they have to endure more loneliness because they are not going to ask for more human connection and look lonely and desperate, and they probably wouldn't get it even if they did. Of course, this is just my perspective, as an asexual 36-year old man, who hasn't been in the workforce for years. The only friendship I have managed to make since I started trying, is this 70-year old man from Vietnam who meets with me three times a week to learn English. At some point, we started going over various articles related to medical stuff together. He brings food every time. After I'd been doing this for about a year... he started checking my blood pressure before we start each time, and we'd compare our numbers to see whose blood pressure numbers were better. The interesting thing is, we originally met through a conversation partners program that was targeted to teaching foreigners English. He had asked for additional meetings a couple of times before the program ended, and I agreed to them. So, somehow, even after the program ended and he went back to Vietnam for several months, he called me back up and we started meeting regularly again. So somehow, we ended up being friends somehow because of a now-defunct program offered at a community college, and the connection didn't end simply because a habit formed where he'd ask for additional conversation practice outside the meetings while they were still going on. The other people in the program, who didn't do this, I never heard from them again. Only the one who formed the habit of asking for additional help ahead of it ending.

  • @whocaresaboutname1514
    @whocaresaboutname1514 4 дні тому

    This guy is legendary. (Im a cs degree and trying to protect my sanity with these videos which probably makes it even worse but who cares system is rigged anyways so just enjoy life lol)

  • @MuneyMakinMich
    @MuneyMakinMich 4 дні тому

    Interaction for algorithm 🤖

  • @PeaceLoveDisney
    @PeaceLoveDisney 5 днів тому

    Unfortunately I try to make plans to hang out with the current friends I have but they're all wrapped up in their own lives and are terrible at communication and never commit to any plans. (Trust me this is why I'm looking for new ones.)

  • @ajvandergrift1240
    @ajvandergrift1240 5 днів тому

    I kind of usually don’t like these type of videos of how lonely people r but this one I enjoyed because it was kind of goofy with it so nice job.

  • @KrisHughes
    @KrisHughes 5 днів тому

    I'd rather be a random transplant in a city (I've done it) than a random transplant in a rural area/small town (also done it). US cities in particular are not designed for social interactions, though, you're right! I agree with you mostly here!

  • @jonnygraham2372
    @jonnygraham2372 5 днів тому

    75 % of people have no time or money anymore and dating is rigged against men. Not much you can do except have the best attitude you can.

  • @telegraphjames4542
    @telegraphjames4542 5 днів тому

    Dude with the whole bar experience, that sounds rough. I would suggest trying a dive bar though. They always seem sketchy and weird but always seem to have the most social and open people at them. It's mostly because they're shitfaced but hey, you should be too if you're talking to strangers. Also another way I've found to make friends is cook for/with people. It gives everyone a shared thing to look forward to and contribute to if they want (or not) and you can just talk about whatever (and drink if needed) while you're cooking, so you don't just sit there twiddling your thumbs and trying to figure out what each of you is doing in that moment. Even if you can't cook, just make like, pasta or whatever, it doesn't have to be a spectacle.

  • @lennyjade
    @lennyjade 5 днів тому

    “smoking just enough weed to keep the cycle going” help im being attacked

  • @supervivo7069
    @supervivo7069 5 днів тому

    Interesting topic! One curious discussion I read said the decline of third spaces may be due to how much better homes are now. Think about it, before the Internet, there was far less entertainment and thus more incentive to go outside. Nowadays I could just (and sometimes do) spend hours online.

  • @Sendittothemoon
    @Sendittothemoon 5 днів тому

    Obviously a human isn’t going to like going into a box for half their day

  • @icecreamfordawin6859
    @icecreamfordawin6859 5 днів тому

    I totally agree with this video. Third spaces are needed. BUT ALSO PLEASE NO MORE ANIMAL ASS I CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE